This is a text dedicated to women.

Today’s women. 

I’m convinced that every man will agree.

Every woman needs to be beautiful because the female beauty is a powerful force that directs our lives in many directions.

And every woman is beautiful.

Even if it is not “publicly recognized” for it, it does not mean that it is not in fact if she thinks and feels herself as if other people perceive it as such.

But too often the woman does not think she is good enough. Aesthetically beautiful. And as if many factors helped that state to be true …

The subject of appearance was always important. Which is great. 

But it seems to me that the focus has shifted lately. 

We are no longer talking about sustaining, trying to look good, emphasizing ourselves and standing out through our individual circumstances but rather a change, not to say about (re) modeling.

But – dear women – we are not dolls.

 we are also not puppets.

(… unless we want it …)

How important the beauty is – as a separate and aesthetic category – it is another question, and what we perceive to be beautiful. Also, at different times the criteria for beauty are different. Deep and complex topic that can be considered in many ways, but in this text I want to say some terribly important things – obligatory for every woman.

Number 1: I’m beautiful

Yes, that’s right!

I know it, I believe it, I repeat it. If I should – I invent a mantra in which I am implanting this fact. If I want – I create my own prayer, in which I exalt myself and my own glory. 

I can think of how cool I am when I sleep (if necessary) before going to sleep.

Number 2: You are beautiful.

You are incredible.

You look great.

Smile more often …

Number 3: She is beautiful

She is a splendor.

Shining.

Looking at her, I see myself.

Numbers 4.5 and 6: We are beautiful, You are beautiful, They are beautiful

And so on, etc ….

….

And so: linguistically I played a bit to show that beauty lives in every woman, it is literally everywhere. I see it in myself, but I see it in every other lady. The main thing is to be able to feel it in its specificity and variety, not in any particular form, let alone a template. The good is in the peculiar, in the different, not in the same.

Our specific vision is a gift, specificity, individuality – it is mostly from within. But we can only look at it from the outside – the same features to be applied.

The beauty of a woman is very much related to the maintenance, which is even more dependent on the inner state, by which we radiate the rays and is not related to artificial additives.

The woman is beautiful because is. 

I want to say all this because it seems to me that for some time women have … something like curved mirrors. 

They are increasingly identified with models – distant models! – and it’s tragic when you have nothing to do with the model. Then you forget yourself and you lose yourself. You want something you do not have. Maybe you hate yourself? Do not you hurt yourself cruelly if you long to change? How much is the vision and the psyche closely related and to what extent will we allow one to negatively affect the other? And the main question – why exactly do you want to not be yourself?!

The difference between maintaining and changing is enormous.

I personally quite support myself. I cannot deny that I have had moments in which I want something different. But never quite different. 

When you realize how stupid it is to want someone else and how strange you become for yourself – the better you feel in your skin! 

And in your brain.

I have my hair, my skin, my breasts …

I have my stretch marks.

Each of us has its own special things, right?

Sometimes I put on weight, sometimes I lose weight.

I can have long nails, I can have them short and colorless.

I can have black hair, I can have red hair …

And I do not want the lips of some lady, someone`s ass, or anything else from someone else!

Women, enjoy what you have!

Improve it, take care of it, and always love it!

It is yours personally.

Falling in the wrong direction, following a blind pattern, can push you into many bad, sometimes devastating conditions.

I will reveal you a secret.

Do you know what kind of woman is most desired?

The one who realizes that she is beautiful – as she is – knows it, feels it, radiates it, makes it seemingly invisible. 

And that’s what conquers. 

The rest is unimportant.

Additionaly, there is something terribly important that is not logical – it is chemistry between people and it has nothing to do with the beauty itself.

P.S. This short text is the result of impulse, of emotion, but with the main purpose of giving women confidence, giving them tiny courage, if possible, in the direction they look and feel with their own vision … 

This text was created by Emma Tomova and has copyright. Please respect this 🙂

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